I fast forward to today and look at 100 days so far with 169 to go. My wfie had never been able to go "all-in" with the idea of chastity because of the issues before. Plus soon as I would be in the device the sexual buildup would have me all over her. As my blog shows in past post, we have tried different games or ideas for when I would be locked up and when I would be released.
I am not quite sure how things have changed so much over the last few weeks. I have found a comfort in the device and enjoyment of bringing my wife to a orgasm with no possible chance for a release from the device. We have discussed the possiblities of not having to remove the deviceto achieve a orgasm for me. Using a strong vibrator or the newest interest I have found "nipple orgasms".
It seems that many men have been able to achieve "nipple orgasms" with no stimulation to the penis. This requires the male to have their nipples be one of their high erotic zones. My nipples are my HIGHEST erotic zone...
Something that interest me greatly is the mental shift that happens when in long term chastity. Shifting from the thought "will I get out tonight" to "why do I need out", I enjoy getting to orgasm, I enjoy intercourse, yet I find being kept from it a very erotic/comforting/connecting place also.
I will see if this is a constant feeling as the days go by or changes.
I know how feel my friend. I was recently able to have an orgasm (ruined) merely by watching Mistress have an orgasm and by her barely touching my perineum, and I mean barely. It was as close to a no-hands, no-touch orgasm as is possible, but it was quite a breakthrough for us. I loved it !!
ReplyDeleteI enjoy intercourse too but have found that when having sex with Mistress, and the urge to cum builds up, i now default to hoping she denies me rather than hoping she will allow it.
I crave this, but as of yet my wife has never wanted me to go beyond 3 weeks. I would like to know what it is like after 60, 90, 100+ days.
ReplyDeleteI know of a few males who got off with nipple stimulation. You can also get orgasms anally if you want. The key is no penis attention for a long time and lots of play with the area you want to use to get off. Of course, I have to ask why you would want to do that? It absolutely kills the value of the chastity device. Aren't you wearing it to prevent unauthorized orgasm?
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