Thursday, March 17, 2016

Orgasm Denial information found

Male Chastity - Orgasm denial – Hand in Hand
By Travis C.

Male chastity, if you are using it then you know the benefits, if not, there is enough on the web to educate yourself.

What is orgasm denial?
The process of bringing the male to the verge of an orgasm, without allowing a orgasm. This process can be done once or multiple times, during a sexual encounter. The end result is the male not achieving an orgasm.

Why does orgasm denial go hand in hand with male chastity?
Orgasm denial allows the partner to have more control of the sexual experience and when an orgasm is allowed, the orgasm will be stronger than any experienced before.

Why use orgasm denial? 
Denial allows the partner to enjoy the effect of the male not having an orgasm as his sexual tension will increase. The physical effect of orgasm denial has been found quite pleasing to experience by the partners. Denial also allows the partner to completely have control of when and how the male will orgasm.

What is the best way to preform orgasm denial?
With intercourse it is very hard to preform orgasm denial with the male being in control of rhythm and pace. Orgasm denial is best preformed with oral, hands or vibrator. This allows the partner to control all aspects of the experience.

How to preform orgasm denial?
Simply use oral, hands or a vibrator to bring the male partner to the edge of an orgasm, stop all stimulation, and allow him to “cool down”. At this point the partner can decide to repeat the process or stop completely.

Are trigger words used?
Yes, trigger words are used by both partners. A suggested process includes using “close” as the male becomes close to an orgasm, and “may I” when the male is at the edge of the orgasm. The partner can use “no” and quickly stop stimulation or “yes” and continue, allowing the orgasm.

How many times is suggested for denial before an orgasm?
There is no magic number, the unknown is suggested. If a pattern is created the male will quickly learn and expect the orgasm or number of denials. The suggestion would be more denials than orgasms, this will achieve a great amount of sexual tension and much greater orgasm.

How do you stop once you have decided the last denial has been achieved?
This is the simplest answer, place the male partner back into chastity.

In closing, the results of using orgasm denial with male chastity will increase the achieved orgasm effect. The denial will bring the control directly to the partner and the connection in the relationship even closer. Male chastity is typically used for excessive masturbation, orgasm denial increased the focus and effect of the partner’s participation in a sexual encounter. The end result is a higher connection of emotions with the two partners and more enjoyable experience.


  1. I'm not locked that often because my wife prefers to feel my erections as she falls asleep (assuming she doesn't want me to come). She is an expert teaser when she wants to be. She said that my breathing and body movements are a dead giveaway for when I am near orgasm, and (assuming she doesn't want me to come) she will stop cock stimulation and move to the balls/perineum or my chest. Edging is a frustrating, yet very hot experience!

  2. I'm in a similar situation to lovetosubmit. Mistress owns a chastity cage, but I am not in it very often. Instead, Mistress K. prefers the honor system and has let me know that masturbating (or even touching it) without permission is akin to having sex with another person without her knowledge. it is simply not tolerated on any level. She mostly only brings out the cage for punishment purposes. My Mistress Wife also prefers to see and feel my erections and will routinely order my pants down and then demand an erection. I have only a short amount of time (seconds) to produce an erection.

    Also, Mistress will differentiate between a full on orgasm (rare for me) and a ruined orgasm. So far in 2016 I have had maybe 4 ruined orgasms and only 1 full orgasm, which was allowed to me on new Years morning. Last year I was only allowed 4 full orgasms.

    I have come to accept, even cherish my fate of being almost constantly denied an orgasm. I have even been able to enjoy the feeling that comes with blue balls that i get when Mistress will edge me (or order me to edge myself) a lot in a short period of time. Even with very few orgasms ..... my sex life has never been better.

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