As those that read my blog know, we have been searching for a way to cut some/all of the feeling I get when we are having sex. Mainly because, after being locked in my device for periods of time, I become extremely sensitive and able to orgasm very quickly.
The goal at first was to get me where I could go longer before having a orgasm. Once researching, the idea of getting to the point where I "might orgasm" or couldn't orgasm sounds so erotic. If I can't then I would be "denied" and put back in my device till the next chance.
The sleeve didn't work well for us and the Durex condom was suggested with the numbing effect we thought it might work well.
The ultimate goal is to find the balance where my wife can stimulate me as much as she likes (nipples-so forth) and I can go at it as hard as I can with the chances of a orgasm unknown. My ideal goal would be set less than 50/50 more a 80% denied/20% achieved orgasm ratio. As for now, we got the chance last night to try the condom.
Last night was very interesting, after reading different results and how long it takes for the numbing to take effect my wife suggested to start slow and see how things go. So once I had taken care of her, I put the Durex on and we went at it slowly for a short period.
I would say the condom seems thicker than the ones I usually used which was a plus right off the bat. After a short time I noticed less feeling on the head of my penis and my wife began to play with my nipples. We quickly found, even with the condom and numbing, my excitement and her ability to drive me crazy with my nipples had me at the edge. I did last much longer and we discussed putting it on earlier to give the numbing more time to set in. I few reviews suggested placing the condom on early and giving 5-10 mins for full effect.
We are very pleased with the results and we may try some numbing spray or creams later. The next attempt will be in a month after my release again and will see how wearing the condom for a longer period does.
Side note, I know the numbing was working because at one point I stopped to just make sure it was still on because the shaft had started to lose some feeling.
Last
night was very interesting, after reading different results and how
long it takes for the numbing to take effect my wife suggested to start
slow and see how things go. So once I had taken care of her, I put the
Durex on and we went at it slowly for a short period.
I
would say the condom seems thicker than the ones I usually used which
was a plus right off the bat. After a short time I noticed less feeling
on the head of my penis and my wife began to play with my nipples. We
quickly found, even with the condom and numbing, my excitement and her
ability to drive me crazy with my nipples had me at the edge. I did last
much longer and we discussed putting it on earlier to give the numbing
more time to set in. I few reviews suggested placing the condom on early
and giving 5-10 mins for full effect.
We
are very pleased with the results and we may try some numbing spray or
creams later. The next attempt will be in a month after my release again
and will see how wearing the condom for a longer period does.
Side
note, I know the numbing was working because at one point I stopped to
just make sure it was still on because the shaft had started to lose
some feeling.
Last
night was very interesting, after reading different results and how
long it takes for the numbing to take effect my wife suggested to start
slow and see how things go. So once I had taken care of her, I put the
Durex on and we went at it slowly for a short period.
I
would say the condom seems thicker than the ones I usually used which
was a plus right off the bat. After a short time I noticed less feeling
on the head of my penis and my wife began to play with my nipples. We
quickly found, even with the condom and numbing, my excitement and her
ability to drive me crazy with my nipples had me at the edge. I did last
much longer and we discussed putting it on earlier to give the numbing
more time to set in. I few reviews suggested placing the condom on early
and giving 5-10 mins for full effect.
We
are very pleased with the results and we may try some numbing spray or
creams later. The next attempt will be in a month after my release again
and will see how wearing the condom for a longer period does.
Side
note, I know the numbing was working because at one point I stopped to
just make sure it was still on because the shaft had started to lose
some feeling.
We've had success with Anbesol oral numbing gel, covered by a couple isoprene condoms (CH is allergic to latex). I can be completely numb in less than ten minutes and am able to give my sweet bride a VERY good time for as long as she wants without any chance of me having an orgasm. However, we're not having much PIV sex these day, so the Anbesol hasn't been getting much use. CH badly wanted to get off HRT (hormone replacement therapy for the crap brought on by menopause, and consequently, penetration has become very uncomfortable for her. Since we both enjoy all the other aspects of a kinky sex life, it's not a big deal.
ReplyDeleteIf you're young and both have the need to fuck at least occasionally, different numbing options are a godsend if your stamina has taken a big hit from being locked and denied.
I could have written the above myself. My lovely bride has really gotten into coming with me inside her, but she still wants to control/limit my orgasms. Like you,when I'm denied for a bit, I come quite easily.
ReplyDeleteI tried Anbesol as Harry suggested and then put a skyn condom on. I gave it a few minutes to take effect, but I don't think I was fully numbed. I did in fact last longer than normal (could be the condom effect also). She came pretty hard with my cock inside her and then I withdrew to let her "come down". She let me back inside her and then changed her mind and allowed me to orgasm. It was fantastic.
I'd like to try this play a bit more, to experiment on what would truly prevent my climax. But in my experience, it's not just about the stimulation on my cock, it's her dirty talking and occasional nipple pinching that will drive me over the edge.
Cheers
We also tried this using Maximum Strength Lanancane along with the Durex numbing cream condom. My problem was I couldn't maintain an erection because I was so numb. The best part was it took almost an hour to get enough sensation back to erect and ejaculate and when I did it was like a ruined or minimized orgasm! Almost no sensation of cumming at all! All in all a success!
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