Monday, February 18, 2013
The wheels grind away....
I sit here thinking....
My wife and I use chastity because "I want chastity" not because she does. She plays along, and now and then will surprise me. Yet, like last night she talked about how she doesn't mind it at all but doesn't want to make it "Some domination,submission game".
She told me she can tell a real difference when I am in chastity how I am more aware of her and her needs. Yet she doesn't want the chastity to dictate the way I act, however it does.
So we discussed this a while and still didn't come up with a good plan for how the chastity would work for us. For me, I really can't have access to the keys easily because I will get weak and use them. Yet she is not a strong keyholder that really wants the keys. It's more of a "can take it or leave it" with her. She mainly does some stuff for me more than anything.
The task she gave me was to come up with a way that she can be the keyholder with minimum requirements. She doesn't want a reward game, or anything like that. So the idea is a bit tough. She told me the dice game was just "corny".
Been thinking how to come up with something that would work for her, give a good amount of control to her, yet be as easy as it can get......
So the idea I have right now, really puts me on the spot, yet is very easy for her.
** We have three dates that mean a lot to us that are spread out thru the year. These dates actually have a average of no less than 105 days apart and up to 120. If I use these three dates for actual releases the time between releases are simple. The catch is, that's longer than I have ever been and I will go that time three times before next January........ I have thought of two pegging dates to be added possibly (without device removal of course).
The device will remain on for all times unless work requires removal (metal detector), Doctor visit, sports game or travel with family. Other than that the device will stay on with no removal. **
Now, the question is, do I have the bravery to offer this idea up and know that I will only be allowed 3 releases in 2013??????