So your using chastity now, tease and denial has been
brought up, what to do? My husband did the same with me and this is a small
guide to those that need help.
*Not doing anything is the same as neglect
*The smallest thing can achieve as much as the largest
*Equal focus can be made outside the bedroom as much as in
the bedroom
Simple suggestions;
1.
Perfume- smells can bring a lot of emotions with
a man
2.
Clothing- favorite piece, heels, dress will do a
lot
3.
Touching- a simple touch here and there
4.
Vocal- talking or letting him talk about
chastity
5.
Symbols- necklace, picture, tattoo
Advanced suggestions (bedroom);
1.
Finding the magic spot- ear, neck, nipple and
paying attention to it
2.
Vocal- discuss a happy point you have about him
in chastity, or his device
3.
Physical contact- touching the device
4.
Clothing- lingerie, heels, favorite outfit
5.
Sexual act without release
Two acts I find most effective with my husband;
1.
Sitting on top of my husband while he is on his
back (in bed). I feel his device on my butt, and move a bit and find his magic spots;
letting him tell me how he likes the situation he is in.
2.
Hitachi vibrator, using it on his cage but not
to the point of ejaculation (The Hitachi is wonderful for personal use and for
him to use on you also)
Men need reassurance that we are ok/enjoy/want them in
chastity. When in chastity they also need some attention if left in the device
for longer periods to keep their happiness to be in the device. If done
correctly my husband has passed up scheduled releases because of the effect of
the tease and denial.
No suggestion or idea may work or all of them may for other
couples. This is just a example of what I do with my husband over the years and
has worked for us. Find what works for you and enjoy.
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